If you raise a kitten from a young age and interact with it frequently, especially by hand-feeding and using positive reinforcement, the kitten will quickly bond with you. Kittens raised from a young age tend to form stronger emotional attachments to their owners.
How to Get Close to Your Kitten
1. If a cat only starts interacting with humans later in life, they may be wary and hesitant towards people. Even if they eventually live alongside humans, they might not develop a close bond. Therefore, it’s essential to begin socializing with your kitten early on, allowing it to become familiar with humans and perceive them as part of their environment. This early exposure is key to forming a strong, affectionate relationship. By spending quality time with your kitten when they're very young, you create a foundation of trust and familiarity. The more interaction they have with you, the more comfortable and loving they will become.
2. Young kittens are naturally curious about everything. Their playful antics are often just their way of exploring their world. If you react with strong emotions or sudden movements when they're being mischievous, they might interpret this as encouragement. This could lead to these behaviors becoming more frequent. It's more effective to ignore incorrect behavior or, alternatively, mimic the 'tsking' sound a mother cat makes when scolding her kittens. Ignoring the unwanted behavior will help them understand what is not acceptable, while the soft tsking noise can guide them towards more appropriate actions. This gentle approach is far more beneficial than harsh reactions, which can cause them to be fearful or anxious around you.
3. Since kittens lack the guidance of their mothers, they learn through exploration. As their caregiver, you must assume the role of a mother cat, teaching them how to play appropriately. Behaviors like scratching furniture, stealing food, or running around at night are unacceptable. Provide your kitten with various toys and demonstrate how they're meant to be used. This will help them understand what's okay and what's not. For example, show them where they can scratch appropriately, such as a scratching post, to satisfy their natural instincts. When they are bored or need to release energy, this helps them learn an appropriate channel. By consistently guiding their activities with toys and positive interactions, you can teach them how to channel their energy constructively, leading to a more harmonious and happy relationship between you and your new kitten. Remember, patience and consistency are key to raising a well-behaved and affectionate kitten.